Irish Pink Adoptions aims at providing support information for “pink” families-to-be, or who already are.
We chose the term “pink family” as a relatively neutral umbrella term for the single gay men, single lesbians, or same-gender couples who intend to adopt, are in the process of adopting, or have the intention to adopt. Read More »
A lot of people asked us where to find them, and if we sell them.
We do not sell them: we actually suggest you make it yourself.
We found people are more likely to see it if you make it yourself and ask what it means.
Also, symbolically, we suggest you make it from a small safety pin and from a piece of your own bed linen… after washing it of course!
Any other white fabric can do. We like the look of the torn fabric but not everyone does.
Just pin the safety pin in place, and tie the knot around the bigger loop, ensuring the not is well visible.
You can also cut the ends of the know to form a little “V” to make it more stylish.
But some people do not like the look of the home made one.
So, alternatively you can get them from free from the USA site: http://whiteknot.org/how.html (self-addressed stamped enveloped needed)
The campaign for the white know was originally launched in the States, and they bulk sale them too.
But we have no connection or with, relation to, or benefit from them.
The Civil Partnership is a step forward for tax-payers, a leap backward for children’s constitutional rights.
The Civil Partnership is a good thing, because it is better than what we had before: gay couples are now going to be recognized as valid couples, as valid tax-payers.
But it is also the resounding and insulting refusal to recognize us as valid parents, and thus it is a continuous breach of children’s constitutional rights.
Children rights were breached before, but they are even more breached now
Since the 28th December 2009, 7 same-gender couples have gotten married in Argentina, and it started a legal battle between the religious groups who claim the Law does not allow it, and the rest of society who is more or less ready to accept the obvious. (With an important divide beween cities and the country side)
The clarify the situation, the left-leaning gouvernment has decided to pass a Law which now needs to be approved by the Senate.
This is very important news, and at the same time it makes a joke of the Irish situation which is only now passing a second-class law for civil partnership… a solution that was seen as modern in Europe… 15 years ago.
Let’s remember that in South-America, Mexico City performs same-gender marriages, and only Brazil and Uruguay allow same-gender couples to jointly adopt.
http://www.adoptionboard.ie is now redirected to their new website: http://www.aai.gov.ie/
Adoption in Ireland is regulated by the Adoption Board / Authority which is an independent quasi judicial statutory body appointed by Government. Adoptions in Ireland commenced on the 1st January, 1953 with the enactment of the Adoption Act, 1952.
Pressure groups for equal rights to marry have not come up with a strong public symbol.
This one is simple: a white knot.
Call the campaign: white knot, why not?
But it is just an American fad? Or can it be worn by us all, within a week?
No need to buy them: just pin a white ribbon made form a strip of white fabric.
And when asked at work, or at home, why you do it, simply answer that you believe that marriage is a human right, and that you are human too. And that it is time the government noticed.
Online TV AnLár asked us to answer 5 questions, to illustrate the theme of this year’s Pride: “We are family too.”
So we had a go at it.
What does it take to be 'family'?
White knot! Why not?
Friends are people you would risk your life for.
Lovers are people you would give your life for.
Family are people who give you life.
But life is not limited to a biological function.
For instance adopted children give their parents a life as parents, and the adoptive parents give them real parents.
Another instance is that step-parents are not perceived as real parents unless they give the children and the parent of the child, “life”; until they make them who they are rather than just “contribute”.
Family is what turns a child into our child into an individual.
Even without a biological link, we are family too…
… unless you consider inter-breeding the norm!
Is the gay community serious about family rights, is there a real grass root interest, or is it just a political game?
Who can ask this question with a straight face?
Family rights are all about the children.
The Civil Partnership bill would work for any couple (same-gender, or mix-gender) if they do not have kids, and do not plan on having any.
We are serious about ensuring that our children, the children raised by gay couples, the children that we love and who love us, the children who rely on us and trust us, that our children avail of the constitutional protection for marital families.
They are not second class citizens.
People who are against same-gender marriage are against children.
If the government wanted to allow gay couples to marry, is there a risk it could be challenged? On what grounds?
None. No serious threat.
Actually, it would be challenged… but it would not stand.
If the government was not so dependent on a certain section of the religious class, a section which has proven unable and unwilling to uphold children’s best interest, they would not pretend that an expensive and divisive Referendum is “needed”. They need people to believe it is needed. But it is not.
Not until an hypothetical challenge is lost. And even then, the challenge would be the platform fora referendum to be winnable as the opinion will have heard the arguments before having to argue about it themselves. And people are more intelligent than the government give them credit for.
As for the grounds, none of them is serious:
Is marriage by same-gender couples a threat to the institution of civil marriage?
Of course not. We are talking about the constitutional marriage, the one which is the foundation of the family, the one that supports the education of children, the where “family” is defined as a household (Teaghlach) and not as a blood relation.
Is anyone’s constitutional right breached by same-gender marriage?
No ones. You cannot breach someone’s rights by giving someone else’s a right that does not impact the former. It is not like we force them to get married with someone outside of their own gender…
Is a gay couple a threat to the children? Think about the children! We are thinking about the children; about the ones we raise; about the ones the Irish Adoption Agency is willing to allow us to adopt, because they trust we can be just as good parents as any.
The only people who will make their life harder are the people, the bullies, who make this silly argument (and threat) in the first place.
We will not deny our children a family on the ground that bullies tell us our kids will be bullied.
Is the institution of civil marriage threatened by gay parents and their children and their lifestyle?
I think we just answered that
At present, the only thing threatened is our children’s welfare: the government actively stops our children from receiving the constitutional protection they deserve: a marital family.
What is the connection between sexuality and the spiritual value of marriage?
People are free to practice their own religion, or whatever spiritual values they want to practice.
But religion is a personal relationship one has with their spirituality, or their God, or their gods, or whatever Supreme Being they turn to.
Religion cannot be allowed to make the Law, and to bully children.
Religious people do not mind gay couples adopting children, or raising their own, in a marital household, in a marital family. The people who mind are not religious people, they are religious extremists, integrists, who want to force their convictions on others.
We promote the right to choose our own lives.
They want to bully us in living their own choice.
The Labour Party www.labour.ie and the Equality Authority www.equality.ie have both suggested that anyone who has acted as a parent to a kid should be allowed to apply for legal guardianship of the child they are parenting.
That would of course include same-gender partners.
It is one more step towards recognizing that parenting is not about gender or sexuality, it is about parental love and parental skills.
This will confer an entitlement to apply for guardianship upon, for example, a man who is not the father but who the unmarried mother subsequently marries, without eliminating the guardianship position of the natural father. It would also protect the partner, including a same-sex partner, of one of the natural parents, who acts in loco parentis to the child. Such a partner will be entitled to apply to become a guardian.
The past twenty years have witnessed a considerable growth in the diversity of family patterns, with a growing number of children being raised by unmarried cohabiting couples (both same-sex and opposite-sex) and in one-parent families.
Joint adoption, moreover, is not available to unmarried couples, including same-sex couples, nor will it be available to civil partners under the Civil Partnership Bill 2009, as currently formulated.
The competition, now in its second year, is back with a bang with the winners being announced at a glitzy awards ceremony held in Dublin City Centre. The winning short will also be screened at the Meeting House Square on Monday 21st June as a mini featurette before the premiere screening of the Alternative Miss Ireland contest 2010.
This year’s theme “We Are Family Too” hopes to highlight the fact that LGBT families inhabit a legal limbo without recognition or protection from the State and with no legal rights or constitutional recognition. While we welcome the fact that the Government is recognizing the lack of protection for LGBTQ people in Ireland, there remain many important areas, particularly regarding LGBTQ families, where the legitimacy of our lives as LGBTQ people is not respected nor given equal status.
Source
This post is taken from: http://queerid.com/topic.aspx?topicid=25867
AAI: intercountry adoptions
Intercountry adoptions is the most likely type of adoption for LGBT people, unless they adopt a relative.
Adoption information booklets
Information booklet on the intercountry adoption process for prospective adoptive parents. (Process, assessment, afterwards)
Adoption Bill 2009 (follow stage by stage)
Act to provide for the dissolution of An Bord Uchtála and the establishment of Údarás Uchtála na hÉireann (Adoption Authority of Ireland)
Adoption and fostering
Outline of the important information, from the Citizens Information Board.
Ireland and the Hague convention
Ireland signed this Convention on 29th May 1993 and legislation to facilitate its ratification is currently at an advanced stage of preparation.
Marriage Equality
Working for civil marriage for gay and lesbian people.
Outhouse
Outhouse’s core function is as a base for events, services, supports and activities for the LGBT community.
Gay Switchboard Dublin
The Gay Switchboard Dublin is one of the longest running Irish voluntary LGBT community based services.
Gáire
Forums, Personals, Dating Profiles, News, Blogs & Advice
QueerID
Gay Ireland – Scene Guide & Social Network
gaeLick
Gaelick is an Irish lesbian e-zine, comprising a group of Irish women who talk too much. So now, we’re lesbians online.
Angry Potato
An odd bunch us Spudlets, with a passion for everything from Current Affairs to music, sexy men and women to cocktails and em….. tractors and Miriam O’Callaghan.
BeLonGTo
BelongTo Youth Services. We support lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender young people in Ireland.
And Tango makes three
The true story of Roy and Silo, two male Chinstrap Penguins in New York’s Central Park Zoo who formed a couple and were given an egg to raise.
Le baiser de la lune
A French short film (quickly subtitled in English) about the love of a cat-fish for a moon-fish.
Same-Sex Marriage or Partnership and Adoption: Debate in Ireland
The purpose of this study was to examine the social and political debate surrounding the issue of same-sex marriage or partnership and adoption in Ireland and to identify how opposing sides of the debate use values to frame the issue.
Live Dáil broadcast
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Same-Sex Marriage or Partnership and Adoption: Debate in Ireland
The purpose of this study was to examine the social and political debate surrounding the issue of same-sex marriage or partnership and adoption in Ireland and to identify how opposing sides of the debate use values to frame the issue.
Roller Coaster: adoption forum
Having a child and parenting can bring you to the heights of joy and the depths of despair – all within the space of a few minutes!
Creating a family
A nonprofit providing education, resources, and support for those touched by adoption
Support to altenatives
Gay parents support and social group
Support and Social Group for Gay Dads and Mums and their Friends and Families. We are gay and we should be proud of who we are and remember GAY PARENTS make great parents too.
Alternative Parents
About Irish LGBT people having children though AI,SI,IVF, or from a heterosexual relationship.
Loving our out kids (LOOK)
LOOK, formerly Parents’ Support, consists of a small group of parents who have gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgendered children.
USA intercountry adoption webiste
American website providing valuable information on foreign adoption. The process is not the Irish one, but the information about the countries is valuable.
Adoption Agency Research Group
The Adoption Agency Research Group was formed to help prospective adoptive parents (PAPs) in their research and selection of an international adoption agency.
Vietnamese Irish Network of Adoptive Families
Give support, information and enable a social network for families in Ireland who have adopted, or are thinking of adopting from Viet Nam.
Ireland-Guatemala
Share your interest in Guatemala, and find information about adopting procedures. Note: it does not seem the site is still active.
Roller Coaster: adoption forum
Having a child and parenting can bring you to the heights of joy and the depths of despair – all within the space of a few minutes!
Creating a family
A nonprofit providing education, resources, and support for those touched by adoption
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